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How To Attract Women? What Do Girls Find Attractive In A Man?

18 Dec

Numerous researches and surveys confirmed that:-

• Men are attracted to women by sight and all other feminine attributes take a back seat. So when a beautiful and attractive woman walks into a room, you can be sure that every male eye in the room will instinctively give her a top to toe glance unless of course that guy who didn’t happened to be gay. Some men will already be making mental plans how to chat her up or even taking her to bed.

• Women’s attraction to men is much more complicated. It is the total package that women will be looking for in a man. Good looks alone are not sufficient for a woman to fall head over heels with a man and sex is the last thing in her mind….erm….ahem …usually.

So what do women find attractive in a man? Well researchers surmised that the women’s maternal instinct will look for other attributes in a man besides good looks whether the women know it consciously or not. Some of these are that a man must be confident, must be able to communicate with her verbally and instinctively, must not be a wimp, must have the ability to protect her and her brood, have some quality traits to ensure that the best genes are passed on to her offsprings and a list of other features. Looking attractive is not at the top of the list or so the researches said

Did I say, looking attractive is not on the list? No, I did not. The gurus said so. Why do I disagree? Let me ask you another question. How many times have you heard a woman gushed “Ooooohhh…he is soooo gorgeous” or “Omigosh….Brad Pitt is sooooo handsome”? If that is not being attracted by attractive male good looks, then what is?

While I do agree that girls will ultimately bed or marry a man with many other qualities, an attractive looking man will still be a women magnet or at least during the first contact. How else can a girl get to know a man or are able to assess his other traits without getting to know him first? So the initial attraction is still a good looking male who is attractive to girls and women.

Do we agree now that men must look good to attract the girls? Now that we do, let us explore what physical features will make us attractive to women. We will not discuss facial features because we are stuck with it and nothing can be done except with surgery to reconstruct our face. That leaves us our male body of which we can sculpt and mould so that it is attractive to women.

Most women are not attracted to someone who is skinny or obese. This actually makes sense. A skinny man is instinctively perceived as too weak to protect her and an obese man too cumbersome to bring home the bread and may be prone to illneses. This compartmentalization may not be logical and are probably programmed in women’s primeval maternal instinct.

On the other extreme, most girls are also turned off by men with big huge muscles like those of professional bodybuilders. Reasons often repeated in surveys are that the couple will look unnatural. Normal human do not have such large muscles and therefore bodybuilders are intimidating. To make matters worse, many women whether if it is true or not declare that bodybuilders are narcissists as they spend hours and hours in the gym preening themselves so much so that they are insensitive to women’s needs and so are therefore selfish people. It may not be true, but then these are what women perceived bodybuilders to be.

That then boils down to this, the reasonably muscular and fit man with the following body features attracts women:-

• Broad Back and Chest – Denotes confidence. Projects a strong respectful posture and demeanor.

• Sexy Six Pack Abs – The man is not obese and also with the six pack abs, he is strong and therefore he is not like the skinny weakling. He is also perceived to be great in bed, which adds icing to the cake eh?

• Strong Arms and Shoulders – Able to sweep her off her feet and protect the young ones. Also perceived the man to be hardworking and capable of bringing bread and butter to the table.

• Perky and Strong Butt – Indication of athletic prowess. An ability to jump and climb powerfully. Also some sexual innuendoes are hinted here.

• Strong Muscular Legs – An indication of preparedness for fight or flight when the situation demands.

Still don’t believe me? Ask any woman why do they swoon over Brad Pitt in the movie Troy and you will get the same answers. Therefore the researches are right. What attracts girls to men is a package of many attributes. By owning a reasonably lean and muscular male body certainly embraces many of these traits which women find so attractive. So guys, when is your next gym workout?

About the Author: Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at http://www.sgfitness.com and http://www.seductionflirt.com

Why Women Are Attracted To Muscular Men

17 Dec

Most of us used to think that girls are turned off by muscular guys, well, we were wrong. This is because numerous research has confirmed that women find muscular men more sexually appealing and attractive.

No, of course I am not talking about those bulky professional bodybuilders or heavyweight wrestlers, but the lean and fit muscular types like male competitive swimmers or fitness models. Those research further pointed out that not only do these muscular men attract women more easily, they even have more sex than the averagely built men.

You see, social psychology research repeatedly showed that women will choose more muscular men for short term sexual partners and jump into bed with them sooner without a prolonged dating phase. They will also make love with these men without developing an emotional attraction to them first.

According to an UCLA research published in the August issue of the Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, women don’t just like men with more muscles, they even go after them. Men who are more muscular than average are also much more likely to have short term affairs and multiple sex partners than their thinner or overweight peers. In another study published in 2007, Frederick researchers discovered that the men who were rated more muscular with less body fat were also the same guys who had more sexual partners.

All these studies now goes to prove that the way you look and the condition of your body do play a pretty big role in attracting the girls despite what many “pick up artiste gurus” say to the contrary! These research are solid proof that the way your body looks definitely makes a big difference in the amount of sex you will enjoy and the amount of different women you can make love with. I

In other words, guys with the right “type” of muscularity can snuggle in bed with more women and more often. The less physically attractive guys are rarely chosen by women for short term sexual relationships. That goes to say that if you have more muscles, you will have more flings because you will be oozing with sex appeal!

The research by Frederick and his team of researchers showed that guys with the right muscular build get more girls, they have more one night stands and they even have sex with more women that are currently in relationships with other guys. So if you have the right look, even married, engaged, or women who are “attached” will still want a piece of you, and they are perfectly alright with ‘cheating’ on their significant half to have a taste of what you’ve got to offer although this is not something I would encourage. This is only for your information and not asking you to get under the skirts of women frivolously.

However, the sexual attraction effect is all dependent upon having the right type of muscular body since the research illustrated that an overly bulky bodybuilder is not as attractive as a male body with properly proportioned muscles. Luckily, getting the proper proportions is simply a matter of applying the right workout program. So start getting more muscles on your body start oozing with masculine sex appeal.

About the Author: Chris Chew is a fitness, health and relationship consultant. Read his free articles at http://www.sgfitness.com and http://www.seductionflirt.com


How To Pick Up Women: Secrets To Picking Up Women In The Club Exposed!

17 Dec

The joys of the single life! You’re at a club with loud music, lots of beautiful women, but don’t know how to pick up women at the club! Most guys that go to a club struggle to find women for many reasons. One of the main reasons is not enough confidence when approaching a woman.

Below are secrets on how to pick up women in the club with loud music!

1. Ask Her to Dance

One of the first things you need to do when you enter the club is survey your surroundings and point out single women. Single women are usually dancing in a group with their friends and are extremely easy to point out. One of the easiest ways to pick up women and get their phone number in the club is asking them to dance. You need to approach them when a upbeat and popular song is playing in the club. One of the best ways to ask them to dance is just to go up behind them and than just start dancing! They will look over in a second and if you look half way decent, they should continue to dance with you. After a few songs, you need to pull out your cell phone and try to ask her for her number. Most of the time when you pull out your cell phone, you can hand it to her and she will program her number into your phone for you. That is what I always do and I have a 95% success rate using this strategy.

2. Buy Her a Drink

One of the best ways to pick up women in the club when loud music is playing is after you get her phone number. Ask her if you can buy her a drink! Most clubs that you go to there is a bar just about everywhere you turn. Buying a woman a drink is definitely an ice breaker. As she drinks her drink that you bought her you need to strike up a conversation. This conversation can consist of where did you go to school, where are you from, where do you live, what do you like to do, etc…Think of something and go with the flow. When there is drinking involved, it shouldn’t be hard to strike up a conversation.

After you have bought her a drink, ask her if you can possibly take her out for some coffee or another activity at a later date. You already have her phone number so she should say yes. When you are contacting your new woman you met in the club for the first time you should definitely TEXT MESSAGE her the first time instead of calling her. Most women love to get that first text message from you and are eagerly waiting to respond. It is much easier for the guy/girl to text message for the first time to break the ice. I wish you the best of luck in finding your next dream girl in the club and I hope these tips have greatly helped your chances!

About Jack R:

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The Worried Man

14 Nov

Don’t worry about physical looks. A guys attractiveness towards women is so much more based on personality. Relax. The only people would base who they sleep with off of looks are guys. Those nasty guys you see walking around with a girl who is a definite 10, how do you think they got them? And I know you have heard of good-looking guys having no luck. Physical looks gets her interest, but does not pull her in completely.

” He has a great sense of Humor.”

12 Nov

How many times have you heard that one?

Girls say they like a guy with a sense of humor, but they are lying when they say that is all. Humor will get your foot in the door, work on getting the key.

Chivalry has never been and will never be dead!

4 Nov

– Open doors

– Walk on sidewalk closer to the road

– Pull out her chair

– Buy her dinner

– Hand her the bra that was sitting on the floor after you were done with her…

-ShiToGetYouLaid

Dild-no

4 Nov

Don’t get a girl a dildo that has any resemblance to you penis. It is very simple. She will end up liking it better than you, and after that your competition will have cost you $19.99.